When I was 17years old, stepping out to a high school dance, one of the boys made a nasty remark about my skin I felt humiliated and embarassed I ran home to my mother.MY mother went to her garden and came back with some herbs squeezed the juice out of it and applied to my face and arms the suffered sun damage from working on my father's farm. My mother adviced me that after 25years, am responsible for my own face. in other word, I must pay attention to my appearance. Years later, after a divorce , stress and self neglect took over my face. Similar remark was made again. the individual stated that am old in a humiliating way, in one way, he was right because he was judging by the appearance of my skin. Yes I was humiliated, on the other hand I was inspired because I had to make an instant decision to drive aging back into my birth certificate also to empower other women to do so. I decided to turn the humiliation to inspiration. with what learned from my mother.